Differences Between Boys & Girls with ADHD
ADHD doesn’t always look the same in every child. Boys and girls can show different behaviors and challenges, which sometimes makes it harder to recognize ADHD in girls.
This page will help you understand some of the typical differences in how ADHD presents in boys versus girls — and why those differences matter for diagnosis, support, and understanding your child’s experience.
How ADHD Often Shows in Boys
◻️ More obvious hyperactivity and impulsivity — running, climbing, fidgeting, interrupting
◻️ More externalizing behaviors such as acting out or getting into trouble at school
◻️ Symptoms tend to be noticed earlier because behaviors can be more disruptive
◻️ Often diagnosed at younger ages due to more visible signs
How ADHD Often Shows in Girls
◻️ More inattentive symptoms — appearing quiet, daydreaming, seeming “spacey”
◻️ Less visible hyperactivity; may show as restlessness or internal feelings of agitation
◻️ More likely to internalize emotions, leading to anxiety, sadness, or low self-esteem
◻️ Tend to be perfectionistic, self-critical, or socially withdrawn
◻️ Symptoms often go unnoticed or are mistaken for shyness or moodiness
◻️ Diagnosed later, sometimes not until adolescence or adulthood
Why These Differences Matter
Because girls’ ADHD symptoms can be more subtle or internalized, they often don’t get the support they need early on. This can affect their school experience, friendships, and emotional wellbeing.
Recognizing these differences helps parents, teachers, and professionals provide better understanding and tailored support, improving outcomes for all children with ADHD.
Tips for Supporting Boys and Girls with ADHD
🌱 Pay attention to less obvious signs, especially in girls
🌱 Encourage open conversations about feelings and struggles
🌱 Work with schools to provide appropriate accommodations
🌱 Seek professional evaluation if you notice persistent challenges
🌱 Remember each child is unique — focus on their individual needs
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If you want to learn more about ADHD in boys and girls, or how to support your child, explore our other guides or reach out through the contact form.